Completion of _________
Completion occurs when you say so. It is an act of declaration in the moment vs. having everything completely handled forever. Not being complete leaks energy, creates stress and leaves you tired. It contributes to feeling overwhelmed and creates a lack of confidence and motivation. We avoid completion to avoid self- assessment and, strangely, self-satisfaction. It is simply easier to keep going than it is to stop and take stock. Very few people have the habit of measuring themselves through a methodical and healthy process of completion. We wear ourselves down when we go through life this way. Pursuing some fantasy of perfection or trying to do ‘one more thing’ leads to skipping completion and jumping right into what is next. Again.
The power of completion is a chance to realize how far you have come, how much you have accomplished and what you want to recommit to achieving. This leaves you being energized, clear, appreciated, motivated, confident and COMPLETE! It is mature behavior when you plan and then take the time to review, get complete and look at what is next. It will not happen accidentally. The longer you put it off, the less likely it is to happen. To get some accountability with completion, make a date with a partner (romantic or business) or a friend to sit down at a café, have a cup of Joe and take a look at completing. Then you can relax and be present with others. You can rest, relax, recharge and play. Practice creating and allowing completion and supporting others to do the same on a consistent basis. It works.
Completion Questions (answer each of the questions in detail)